YOUR ‘GIRLFRIEND’ DOES NOT GO ON GIRLS NIGHTS OUT.
If you have the respect of your woman, built a world for her, promised a family, is someone she can admire and look up to, she will not even consider going on a girls night out or even worse a ‘girls trip’.
This is a boundary that must be set at the beginning of the relationship, it is negative behavior that does not benefit the relationship. If she proceeds with ‘why? Do you not trust me?” you proceed with “No, I just didn’t take you as that kind of girl” and pull back your attention. We do not validate this behavior.
A key aspect of relationships dynamics is validation and attention. If you tick the above boxes, she should crave your validation and attention. As such, it makes no sense to give positive reinforcement to behavior that damages the relationship.
So why then, should she need that from others? To be ogled and lusted upon by other men at the bar? To gain the emotional satisfaction of saying ‘I’m sorry I have a boyfriend’. This is what shall be supplied when she goes on the aforementioned ‘girls night out’.
To many, this may seem extreme, but this is where problems start.