The most freeing statement.
Taking complete and utter ownership of the things that happen in your life will set you free.
Rather than being at the whim of the world, you now have some semblance of direction.
It opens the pathways to improvement.
Refusing to acknowledge your role in life’s ups and downs, will land you somewhere in the breeze, being tossed around from tree to tree.
No matter how sour it can be, as a man, you must own the outcome of anything you partake in, no matter if your segment is large or small.
IF YOU ARE DEPRESSED IT IS YOUR FAULT.
IF YOU ARE ANXIOUS IT IS YOUR FAULT.
IF YOU ARE HAPPY…IT IS YOUR FAULT.
YOUR BAD RELATIONSHIP IS YOUR FAULT.
Men must lead relationships. In nearly every aspect. In your body language, tone of voice and direction as a family. It is your role as the man, to hack through the forest shrub and lead your family to safety.
You must set clear boundaries, or she will walk over them.
You must provide emotional stability and remain stoic, or she will get ‘crazy’.
You must state what is deemed appropriate or inappropriate behaviour, or she will be reckless.
You must be greater than your woman’s fears, or your family will become a victim to them.
If you forge this world, she will respect you, love you unconditionally and loyally.
This is the masculine imperative. To create a space for the feminine to nurture and grow what is in it.
Some in society may deem this as ‘controlling’, this will be to their demise.
The world has laws, and so does the home, and the members of the family must respect those laws.
But you must be a man worth respecting.
You will not get this respect if you are not forging the path, bettering yourself everyday and garnering the subtle adoration of those around you. Be a man your woman can look up to.
There is no choice in this. There is no shortcut. IT IS A MANDATORY.
Formerly, these teachings were emphasised in our religious institutions. Masculine structure of the household was an absolute necessity. The societal arrogance towards religion and God, has resulted in a clear divergence from this family structure. One only needs to glance at the results to see the importance of them.
CLIMB MOUNTAINS. BE A LEADER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.