If you cannot detach yourself from the pleasure of sexual gratification, you will forever be at its whim. If you are at its whim, you will be desperate for it. Craving it, looking for it around every corner. The number one repellant of sex, is desperation. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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If you cannot control your sexual desire, it will control you. It will impact every decision you make and every interaction you have with the opposite sex. There will be an undertone of ‘you have something I want’. This is in complete contrast to what develops attraction.